August 14, 2009

CINTA - lokasi : pejabat

Persekitaran tempat kerja moden sekarang ini memberikan ruang mudah kepada seseorang terjebak di dalam hubungan intim antara rakan sekerja.Tak kiralah samada bujang sesama bujang atau bujang yang terpikat dengan milik orang lain, maupun hubungan antara isteri & suami orang! Yang paling menjengkilkan ialah cinta antara si bujang dengan isteri/suami orang dan kegilaan mereka2 yg telah sama2 berumahtangga memburu masalah.

What use to be inconceivable is now rapidly becoming somewhat of an epidemic. Most of all, more men and women find themselves as peers, working on assignments or projects with unavoidable closeness. The environment of the office is built around teamwork, and the co-workers share common goals. When working in such close contact emotional attachment is a natural offshoot. What starts as a coffee break or lunch to discuss the current project tends to become more frequent. Finally these outings often lead to sharing more personal information about oneself. There becomes a deeper connection regarding both work and personal life.

Many find themselves spending a lot more time with work colleagues than with their partner and working hours are generally longer than the amount of time spent at home. Normally, those who got caught up in an office romance more often then not were not having a happy marriage life. Many try to convince themselves that cheating isn’t wrong if their partner wouldn’t care, after all they feel their relationship is on the rocks anyway.

Adakahkah lebih baik membaiki retak istana yang telah terbina atau adakah dengan mencipta ruangan cinta baru boleh menyelesaikan masalah, atau bakal mengundang bencana yang lebih besar?

Dunia percintaan itu memang indah... dan mata memang menjadi buta. Apa-apapun, hormatilah milik orang lain.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Apa2 pun..it takes two to tango....
sendiri carik masalah dan menjebakkan ke masalah..maka tiada ketiga melainkan syaitan...ceh..mcm berceramah lak hik hik...

Anna_M